Wrong or unmet expectations will bring great distress and disappointment every time.
The attitude with which you live your life is a matter of choice. It starts in the heart and when you choose to live life well, with a good attitude, to live patient, honest, and humble, you will see the work of God in your life.
10:9 "The man of integrity walks securely, but he who takes crooked paths will be found out."
Patience does not come easy for us. We are an impatient people in an impatient society.
Proverbs 27:19 "As water reflects the face, so a man's heart reflects the man."